Why validation isn’t as good as you think it is?
Validation is something that most of us have sought at some point in our lives, especially as children wanting to be acknowledged and recognised for doing something well.
How often do we actually carry that throughout our lives, whether in the workplace wanting to be told that we have done a great job or desiring validation from our partners within our relationships?
Quite often when we don’t receive the validation or the approval or recognition that we have been seeking, we can become frustrated or angry and feelings of resentment can begin to show up, creating disharmony for ourselves and in our lives.
Are you listening to the whispers of possibility?
We are so used to listening to the things that are really loud and solid in our worlds, the things we think we are supposed to do, should do, in the right order and in the correct way. As a result we can totally dismiss the whispers of possibilities that are all around us, just waiting to be heard and contribute to us.
What are the whispers of possibility?
The whispers of possibility are where we follow our knowing, our gut instincts, our intuition, that go way beyond the limitations and logic of our minds.
Have you ever had the point of view that you have to do everything? Have you ever realised how much in your business and in your life, that you have to get it all done and that you have to be there to create and do everything for everyone all on your own?
We are so used to thinking that we are alone in this world, even when we are surrounded by people, friends, amazing family and yet still have the sense that we are alone in whatever we are creating in our life and that we have to be the source for everything and everyone.
What if that isn’t really true?
“They won’t let me…”
“I don’t have the time…”
“I have so many other things to do right now…”
“I don’t have the money yet…”
“I’m not at my ideal weight…”
“I’m not quite confident enough…”
“I’ll just watch one more episode of Game of Thrones first…”
Does this sound like something you’ve ever done or thought to yourself?..
Most of us are taught that if we are doing everything to make other people happy then we are doing something right, and if we are not then we are doing something wrong. The only problem with that is that often we forget to include ourselves in our choices... so, what else is possible?
Anything that is light is something that is true, and anything that is heavy is something that is not true. This tool is great for when you require clarity!
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