How much have we been taught or learned that to create and be involved in your own business that it has to be hard work and that for it to be successful you have to ‘do’ everything yourself?
Even though for some of us, the creative aspect of business and putting things into action is fun and exciting, there can be an underlying sense that if we are not working 24/7 that it could fail because we are not working hard enough.
What if that doesn’t have to be true?
Why validation isn’t as good as you think it is?
Validation is something that most of us have sought at some point in our lives, especially as children wanting to be acknowledged and recognised for doing something well.
How often do we actually carry that throughout our lives, whether in the workplace wanting to be told that we have done a great job or desiring validation from our partners within our relationships?
Quite often when we don’t receive the validation or the approval or recognition that we have been seeking, we can become frustrated or angry and feelings of resentment can begin to show up, creating disharmony for ourselves and in our lives.
“They won’t let me…”
“I don’t have the time…”
“I have so many other things to do right now…”
“I don’t have the money yet…”
“I’m not at my ideal weight…”
“I’m not quite confident enough…”
“I’ll just watch one more episode of Game of Thrones first…”
Does this sound like something you’ve ever done or thought to yourself?..
Facilitator. Speaker. Business Creator.