Have you ever had the point of view that you have to do everything? Have you ever realised how much in your business and in your life, that you have to get it all done and that you have to be there to create and do everything for everyone all on your own?
We are so used to thinking that we are alone in this world, even when we are surrounded by people, friends, amazing family and yet still have the sense that we are alone in whatever we are creating in our life and that we have to be the source for everything and everyone.
What if that isn’t really true?
“They won’t let me…”
“I don’t have the time…”
“I have so many other things to do right now…”
“I don’t have the money yet…”
“I’m not at my ideal weight…”
“I’m not quite confident enough…”
“I’ll just watch one more episode of Game of Thrones first…”
Does this sound like something you’ve ever done or thought to yourself?..
Most of us are taught that if we are doing everything to make other people happy then we are doing something right, and if we are not then we are doing something wrong. The only problem with that is that often we forget to include ourselves in our choices... so, what else is possible?
Anything that is light is something that is true, and anything that is heavy is something that is not true. This tool is great for when you require clarity!
We've all been there with that one person that manages to make every interaction with them a slightly awkward dive into self doubt, self judgment and generally less fun and joy than before you interacted with them. But how do you handle toxic people around you during the holidays when families, friends and colleagues get together more often than usual?
Here are my top tips for dealing with toxic people so you can still have a fun time and be happy, whether everyone else around you is or not!
What is your worst problem with money? It's different for everyone but often what it often boils down to is not having enough, or the amount you would like for the lifestyle you want.
Money is a topic that has fascinated me since I was a child. There I've said it. It's not the most honourable of things to admit on an online blog, surely being fascinated with charitable things would be far better but the truth is that since I can remember I always wondered why it was that some people had more money than others. And perhaps more specifically, why a lot of people had more than the people around me.
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